1. legally you are his wife; as the family court Rajasthan's ex-parte order is void,since the supreme court order to stay the proceeding is in the same date.
2. Your DV petition still effective and can get a maintenance for your kid and other reliefs if any asked. Your child is now adult and you can seek the maintenance for the period from which you were separated and he has not . maintained the child . The Dv petition is not time barred as it is an offence in continuance.
Now the divorce matter is transferred to your place of residence in Delhi,so you can fight it . if you have not filed written statement in the divorce matter, in the written statement make prayer for and ask for alimony and residence , educational expenses and future marriage expenses for your daughter as you are the guardian. Even if the court makes it discretion based on that your daughter is adult, it will consider that an unmarried daughter is the responsibility of the parents .If the W.S has already filed move another application for alimony and other monetary relief in the same court in Delhi where divorce matter now pending.