Q.1 How do I deal if she threatens me again?
The violence that affects a person’s life in every way – physically, mentally, emotionally and psychologically is known as Domestic Violence. Domestic violence against men is almost nil as there is no provision in any law to protect a man. As a result of which we have many cases where women use their rights in making false complaint against their husbands with the motive of harassing them.
If a false complaint is registered against you by your wife, you have two options – either to defend your case and wait for the judgement or to file a counter case against your wife and prove her wrong.
Collect as many pieces of evidence as possible
• Record all conversations (voice, chat, email, letters, etc.) with those threatening and keep the originals in a safe place. It is advised not to produce the original evidence before anyone.
• Collect evidence to prove that you have neither demanded dowry nor have taken it anytime.
• Collect evidence to prove that she moved out of the bond of marriage for no valid reason.
• This evidence will be fruitful in the time of getting anticipatory bail or notice bail from the court.
• Once the FIR is lodged, the man can apply for anticipatory bail or notice bail so as to ensure that the innocent family members are not going behind bars without any just cause.
Lodge a complaint to your nearest police station, detailing about blackmailing, her false allegations, and her unbearable behaviour. Request in your complaint that police should take necessary actions to stop her from making threats and abuses immediately, also tell the police verbally and in writing along with available evidence that you are facing blackmailing and threats and mental torture from your wife and/or her family, as the case maybe. Filing such a complaint early on can save you from a lot of trouble later on if you are the first one to file this.
Q2 can she claim on my parents property?
She have no right over your parents property.
Q3. How can I protect myself in the future ?
Amicable settlements and conversation is the better solution. Meet a physiologist and if needed a psychiatrist .May be the hormone imbalance and or greedy nature leads a miserable life.
Q4 how can I get out of this marriage and end my suffering?
File a divorce case against her under the ground cruelty
In K.Srinivas v. K.Sunita where the Apex Court held that it is a settled point of law that if either spouse lodges a false complaint, it would invariably amount to cruelty and would enable the other spouse to file a petition for divorce. Whenever a complaint filed by the wife against her husband under Section 498A, IPC is rejected, and the husband and his family members are subsequently acquitted; then it can be said that the complaint filed by the wife is fraudulent.
Other grounds of cruelty against the husband are-
• Adultery by wife during the lifetime of marriage.
• Misuse of Section 498A, IPC, the Domestic Violence Act, 2005 and other laws.
• Desertion by wife
• The Cruel behaviour of a wife.
• Initiating criminal proceedings against the husband and his family members with malafide intention, etc.