Dowry & mental physical harassment
Dear All Learned person,
I am living in Lucknow my home town and in laws house is in Lucknow. My husband and mother in laws always criticized my parents and brother for dowry. My husband in a daily drinker, he is in film industry working as assistant director as he lives in mumbai and i have to stay in mumbai that was first perception but that even changed when i got married.
With perception that i have to live in mumbai i should adopted life like there so i should drink with him so that he could have company, i asked some friends about and agreed and understood that its is normal thing out there and even here as my husband is agreed to this. But my husband use this trick to seduce me before marriage and get physical as my family was totally depended on me and i was fully in pressure to do this marriage
After marriage my in laws including my husband started critcizing my parents,brother, they asked my salary to give to my mother in law, my husband is asking for rings and chain & ask even money from my home. My mother in law and husband tried to take full control on me but finding no way out they started daily giving mental torture, my husband and mother in laws always ask chain that should be given by my mother.
They always do act so that i can't talk to any one whether my parents or friends. They had compelled me in lovely way to leave my job and for next job i had to fight till morning 5 Am with my husband. I was without money for every single need i have to ask my husband and he use to ask from her mother. My mother in laws right after the marriage kept my all gold jewellery with her and money that i got for any rasam in house as usually happens in hindu marriage. My husband after few days of my marriage went with me to a marriage of my friend where he drinked on 12/12/2015 and created scene on road he use to pull me down from bike make stand in front and talk to me in abusive language and then again me back on bike again after some distance do same and again pull me back he was not in condition to go back home i tooked him to my home were my parents came across his new avtar.
Now things are getting bitter and i am sitting at my father's house last 9th march morning 5:30 am as he did same incident and this time it was 6th time he did it again.Kindly tell me how i can get help from law what proceeding i should follow to make them punish. What i have written here i just 2% what happen with me.
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu