1. You should apply for pre-arrest bail to preempt your arrest as the proceedings initiated against you are of criminal nature which may result in your arrest. Once bail has been granted to you and your family then all of you may safely turn up in mahila ayog as the sword of arrest will no longer hang over your head.
2. You will be given a fair opportunity in the court to rebut her case. However, at this stage your emphasis should be on getting bail. Engage a lawyer and get going.