Where has she planned to file divorce, in India or US?
If the divorce proceedings are to take place in India, the law is different to that of US divorce laws.
In India, she cannot claim a share in the self acquired or ancestral property even if the property is in US. Whereas if she files a divorce suit in US, the post-nuptial arrangement will commensurate with the number of years of married life and the economic status of both.
Can she ask for my house? NO
Will judge say for me to pay her lifetime? It depends on the merits in the case that the court will decide on the alimony amount
How Much?? ????? (Court)
She is young and good educated.
You cannot claim excuse on this ground for denying her maintenance, it bfomes your duty to maintain her as er Hindu law.
I barely have income for myself or to support us together, but how much hurt can judge ask of me?
You prove your economic status before court, the court will decide the quantity of award amount
She uses as threats and I don't know what is true.
Challenge her allegations accordingly
I have my home for 15 years prior to our nuptials. Can she really take my home from me??
No