1. Your have stated "my wife has not been able to adjust to the family culture where she has to take care of the family and also work", 2. If you claim before the Court that this is the culture of your family, then the court will take on to you heavily, 3. A working lady can not take care of both sides with ease and you can not force her to adopt to your culture legally since she is an adult having same civil and constitutional rights like you and she is not demanding that you should change as per the culture of her family, 4. However, you shall have to understand about the above gross erroneous understanding about wife's duties and responsibilities before you embark up on taking any legal step against her, 5. Her agitation may be the result of your such unreasonable expectation from herself, 6. Talk to her and get the disagreement settled amicably since divorce is the 2nd most stressful event in one's life and you never know whether your next wife, if any, will be any better, 7. If she acts cruelly against you or misbehaves, record her such act/conversations by audio/vedio taping, 8. If the dispute reaches serious proportion, lodge a police complaint against her about her such threats, 9. If you decide for divorce, talk to her amicably and go for mutual consent divorce, 10. Handle the matter witrh extreme care since such cases have the tendency to go out of control on slightest provocation from either side.