Hi
1. Your description about he divorce is not clear,
2. if you have got married before getting a decree the marriage is void and illegal even if you have obtained a decree in 2010 from the first marriage.
3. For a formal declaration of marriage null and void through a court decree you will have to file a petition before the court. This is because the boy is not agreeable to allow you go free.
4. You do not need not to wait for the man to agree for divorce , file a petition for nullity