Myself got married to a girl March 2016, Her parents created a lot of issues by means of money. They directly said to me that I should not spend money on my sister marriage and my mom. Even though my dad expired three years ago. I tried convincing them saying it's my responsibility and all.
I have stopped talking with my in-laws, but through my wife, they created a lot of issues. My wife directly said if I am hearing her parents she is ready to be with me. Meantime one fine day, she fought a lot and throwing mangalyam she wanted to go her parents home.
I have dropped her, and her parents not ready for talks. I tried to talk with her grandparents and relatives to settle the issues. Her relatives also said her parents won't hear if we say also if you need that girl go and talk with them.
Somehow, they never ready to talk with anyone. My wife joined hostel nearby my house itself and started forcing me to come and talk with her parents. Then they started talking as divorce saying I humiliated them before her relatives. When I was not ready for divorce her mom spread news to my relatives as I am impotent that's why looking for divorce as.
Finally, we went for Mutual divorce to court after 3 months of marriage. The judge scolded and said we should not come to court for divorce anytime like. After judge got transferred, we again went to court in 8 months. This time court gave us 6 months of time for reconciliation (First Motion).
Due to work, I have moved to the USA, and even I told them to wait for sometime to close the case. After getting my visa extended when I go court found that lawyer has withdrawn the mutual consent divorce by taking the advance date. Case got disposed of with: Uncontested--DISMISSED AS NOT PRESSED.
Sametime, she filed a new petition for divorce under 13(1). I have not got the notice to appear for about 3 months. When I tried to give petition looking for notice in court. Judge not ready to take my petition and asked me to come on hearing date. I have sent my petitions to judge through Register post with acknowledgment.
Same time, her lawyer sent a notice to my Office HR dept saying I am not attending court and giving mental torture to the girl.
Later in Jan,2018 hearing court served NOTICE. Postman not ready to handover the notice to my mom. When I discussed with lawyer to appear on behalf of me. He has mentioned as without notice what we can appear.
Finally, asked my lawyer to discuss with her lawyer to know what we can do. After discussion, my lawyer mentioning to me as not to attend the case let it be ex-parte divorce. He asked me to come to india to sign vakkalat and asked me to give petition to postal dept to deliver any letters in my name to my mom.
Is there is any future issues possible if I become ex-parte?
Is there is any way to attend new case referring mutual - divorce and getting a divorce in the new petition?
Thanks in Advance for your valuable suggestions
Asked 4 years ago in Family Law
I am from Tamilnadu all the court proceedings happening in Trichy. I can't able to get allegations filed my wife in the new petition. My lawyer saying that they are not looking for any money from me, she mentioned as I am fighting with her all the times etc.,
She was with me 21 days after marriage, now it's going to be three years. I dont know why they are trying to ruin my career by sending a letter to my HR dept and all.
Would like to get clarified on below things.
Is there is any future issues by my wife/in-laws possible if I become ex-parte.?
Can't I get a divorce by appearing in coming court session and referring disposed mutual divorce case?
I am in USA, I could not able to go for all hearings in Trichy Court. I tried applying for video conferencing option but got a response as Trichy court doesn't have a facility for that.
Asked 4 years ago