Firstly, if you have given the money without any acknowledgment then chances are less to prove that she has taken money from you, but if you can talk to her through messages and grab the conversation where she agrees that she has taken money then would be a great luck (talk like you are begging for everything and have no relief apart her consent to divorce).
Second, if you have moved before the court that means she gave consent for mutual divorce.
Thirdly, try to move an application before the court to ask her about her non presence, and if she has any difficulty then say.
Lastly, if she still refuses then you can file for divorce on any ground which suits you the most in accordance of law.