Dear Querist
my opinion on your queries are as under:-
1.can I still go ahead with lawyer as you said, inspite of submitting application in mahila thana.or i shud wait for their call?
Opinion:- immediately file a criminal complaint against him for domestic violence and claim protection, right to residence, maintenance, child custody and compensation as per section 18,19,20,21&22 of Protection of women from domestic violence act 2005.
2. I am in hurry bcz I am living alone with kids and that too without adequate money. Till the time matter is not settled, can i ask my husband to provide Finance for daily needs. I am housewife.
Opinion:- as above.
3. Children custody will go to whom? Kids 5yrsgirl and 1 yr.boy.currently they are with me and he has not shown any interest to know whereabout of children for last 9 days.
Opinion: the custody will remain with you and he can get only the visitation right.
4. What will be the process if I go ahead with lawyer?
Opinion:- contact a lawyer who deals in matrimonial cases and file domestic violence case and maintenance case under section 125 of Cr.P.C. and proceed further as per advice of your lawyer.