• Want to stay apart from wife as she tortures me mentally and physically

Hello,

I am very depressed in my married life, i want to stay apart from her because she tortures me mentally.
She wants me to be apart from my parents, she wants to control me,

1. If i go out and meet a friend then she shout and say i have physical relation with my friends that too with male friends, so this way she wants to cut me socially and not to meet anyone.

2. Now she started telling that I have relation with my mother also, so this way she wants me to stay apart from my parents.

3. Recently she wanted to go to her home forcefully as she is pregnant as soon i called to her home and said that she wants to come there next day her mother and sister provoked her for not coming if I don't accept anything happens to pregnancy then I will be responsible. but I want her to go now as she may put me on risk.

4. After hearing to her mother and sister she started shouting like anything in night as usual she does, she attached on me and pressed my neck and said i will kill you today, I got her nails on many places including my neck.

5. My parents are scared if we go and file FIR then if she put false case on us and does something to pregnancy and put blame on me. 

How can i send her to her home and how can I be apart from this bad lady. she might kill me also one day if i don't listen to her.

What shall i do?
Asked 3 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu

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15 Answers

Hello, 

You may go ahead and file a case of divorce on the ground of mental cruelty. 

 

If she files a case then you can go ahead and fight it. 

 

There is no need to live under a constant threat. 


Regards 

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
18078 Answers
377 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

Initially you should take her for counselling with very good doctor and family counselor for the behaviors she is performing with you and your family in matrimonial home.

 

So you all people keep quit in the pregnancy period and after delivery you can have talk on this issue. 

Ganesh Kadam
Advocate, Pune
12930 Answers
255 Consultations

4.9 on 5.0

First of all file a GD and also file a case for divorce on the grounds of cruelty.

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Swarupananda Neogi
Advocate, Kolkata
2964 Answers
6 Consultations

4.7 on 5.0

File for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty 

 

2) wife accusing husband of having extra marital affair amounts to mental cruelty 

 

3) wife forcing husband to stay separate from parents amounts to mental cruelty 

 

4) wife abusing husband amounts to mental cruelty 

 

5) file NC with local police station regarding wife constant threats , her attempts to kill you 

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
94720 Answers
7532 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

- As per Supreme Court judgement, wife is expected to move in with the relatives of their husbands, follow the rules and customs of their home, and ideally, blend in seamlessly as a new daughter. 

- Further, the court granted divorce to a man on the grounds of “cruelty” after his wife refused to share a home with her in-laws.

- Further, If wife is not supporting her husband for the enjoyment of life and denying relation, then the husband can get divorce after filing a divorce petition before the court on this ground.

- As per your submissions , her acts are against the law and humanity , and it amount to cruelty . 

- Further, if she attacks you , then you should receive doctors report for the same , and on that ground you can lodge a complaint against her , and also claim divorce. 

- If , she is not interested to live with you , then file a joint petition for mutual divorce , and if refused, the can file a divorce petition on the ground of cruelty and above mentioned grounds. 

Mohammed Shahzad
Advocate, Delhi
13222 Answers
198 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

1. Apply for judicial seperation, after collecting strong evidence of her behaviour resulting in harassment to you, both physical and mental.

2. In this way, you can live separately from her and after period, you can convince your wife to agree for Mutual Consent Divorce, which saves your time and money.

Shashidhar S. Sastry
Advocate, Bangalore
5116 Answers
314 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

Please go to Government Hospital for medico legal certificate of nail biting on your neck and thereafter immediately proceed to Police Station, to register FIR against your wife for commission of offence of criminal assaults, under whose jurisdiction your home is situated.

Please file divorce petition before family Court seeking divorce on the grounds of cruelty and Domestic Violence

You would succeed if action taken immediately. 

Ramesh Pandey
Advocate, Mumbai
2541 Answers
8 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

You need to file a contested divorce if you want to get separated from her

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
31951 Answers
179 Consultations

4.1 on 5.0

In the given circumstances it will be too risky to send her to her mother's place also.

Because she appears to be eccentric and not to listen to her parents also.

If you are not able to tolerate her tortures then you can leave the home to an unknown destination without entertaining her call or any contacts from her.

You may even inform police about her cruel activities in writing and can seek protection from her false complaints or towards any abortion which she poses a threat now.

You dont disclose your whereabouts to anyone for few days and remain silent by watching the developments from a remote place or through any source.

The break may bring some changes in her.

If not then you can file a divorce case on the grounds of cruelty.

 

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
84920 Answers
2195 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

You should collect all the evidence pertaining to her violence against you and your parents. Send her quietly to her home on any excuse.

File a domestic violence case against her through your mother and sister immediately before she does. Restrict her entry into your home in this way.

Rahul Mishra
Advocate, Lucknow
14088 Answers
65 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

Dear Sir/Madam,

You are suggested first of all to be mentally and emotionally strong and deal the things cautiously. If she is bent upon to go to her mother's place, let her go but not alone. Better, you don't go there and let her mother and sister be with her during journey. When she goes there, Send SMS, WhatsApp, email, letters etc. to your wife calling her to your place. Please keep in mind that it will just a trick and if possible don't call her physically. Keep records of all her conversation as whatever you have said here is cruelty on her part and the same will be proved through her conversation also and it will be used as and when needed. Also, submit an humble application to police authorities regarding the day to day torture created by her and apprehension of false cases under women oriented laws by her. Also, pray for the adequate opportunity to put your version of case before any action against you or your family members. This application can be sent by post, but preserve the application and postal receipt. Don't let her know about the said application to police and keep it safely. 

Ganesh Singh
Advocate, New Delhi
6757 Answers
16 Consultations

4.5 on 5.0

File a police complaint against her for 307IPC for trying to kill you.

File divorce case. 

File DV complaint from your family side.

You also have to face some cases.

Rahul Jatain
Advocate, Rohtak
5365 Answers
4 Consultations

4.8 on 5.0

Dear Client,

You need to record the sound of your wife cleverly while she tortures you or make a video if possible. After making the video, you may file the petition for divorce on the basis of mental cruelty. 

Jaswant Singh
Advocate, Gurugram
929 Answers
2 Consultations

4.8 on 5.0

1. You should file case for judicial separation on grounds of mental and physical cruelty by wife.

2. Mental cruelty in grounds that she doubt you with your male friends and mother and physical cruelty she caused when she tried to kill you by strangulation.

 

Mohit Kapoor
Advocate, Rohtak
10687 Answers
7 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

you may file a petition for divorce in family court. It is one kind of cruelty. 

kindly approach your area PS with a normal written complaint stating the facts

Mohammed Mujeeb
Advocate, Hyderabad
19299 Answers
32 Consultations

4.7 on 5.0

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