1) it is better you dissolve your marriage by mutual consent
2) consent terms can be drawn where in you would get joint custody of the child
3) you agree to pay maintenance for your child and wife (if wife is not working)
4) return of wife streedhan should be provided for
5) if wife does not want mutual consent divorce dont take any legal proceedings at present
6) if wife files false 498A case obtain anticipatory bail and contest on merits
7) if domestic violence case is filed engage a local lawyer and file detailed reply to false allegations made . you dont need bail in DV case