The possessiveness of your wife work out more in real life may be with hot tempered manner. Your marriage is only a stage of bud now and a child is born in this wedlock. A husband is a man to manage wife, parents, children with out colluding their likes and dislikes. And also try to full fill their wish. You will act the roll as a husband, father and son perfectly and not to think for a divorce in this stage. It is not a big issue in life if we approach it in a simple and cool manner. One day counseling is not enough to cure the problems in your life. She had trusted only you in her life as a partner and likes to live with you.
If you think for divorce please follow the legal way given under .The inter-cast marriage is come under special marriage act and you have to follow The Special Marriage Act, 1954 for divorce
Grounds for Divorce under Special Marriage Act are as follows:
(1)Subject to the provisions of this Act and to the rules made there under, a petition for divorce may be presented to the district court either by the husband or the wife on the ground that the respondent”
(a) has since the solemnization of the marriage committed adultery; or
(b) has deserted the petitioner without cause for a period of at least three years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition; or
(c) is undergoing a sentence of imprisonment for seven years or more for an offence as defined in the Indian Penal Code (Act XLV of 1860): or
(d) has since the solemnization of the marriage treated the petitioner with cruelty; or
(e) has been incurably of unsound mind for a continuous period of not less than three years immediately proceeding the presentation of the petition; or
(f) has for a period of not less than three years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition been suffering from venereal disease in a communicable form, the disease not having been contracted from the petitioner; or
(g) has been suffering from leprosy, the disease not having been contracted from the petitioner; or
(h) has not been heard of as being alive for a period of seven years or more by those persons who would naturally have heard of the respondent if the respondent had been alive; or and by the wife on the ground that her husband has, since the solemnization of the marriage, been guilty of rape, sodomy or bestiality.