Physical and mental harassment by husband
I got married last year december.I got married through a marriage portal. When initially conversation started for marriage, we have been told that boy is Graduate and earning 5-7.5LPA, he is vegetarian, non drinker and non smoker. We have been told that he is working as a Area sales Manager. At the time of engagement they asked money for some milani ritual from my father. They asked for 1.20Lac for the same and my father game the same to them.After my marriage circumstances got totally changed, none of the person in the family including my husband talk to me politely. He started coming home late and drunk. He started abusing me and started physical torture. He has beaten me twice and abused me very much. He even tortured me sexually as he has some medical issues which he did not tell me, i asked him why are you taking so many medicines, he abused and said this is not you concern. Later i got to know that he is just 10th pass, working as only executive and his salary is only 20 thousand month, he is non veg, drinker and he smoked too. He is still active on matrimonial profile even after marriage and he has still written all the false information about him on that profile. I am graduate. He has so many cuts on his hands and when i asked him what is this, he said i can not control my anger. Few days ago he insisted me to with him somewhere outside delhi on bike as i was not well so i denied than he abused me and he asked his father to pressurise me to go with him. as i heard few days ago they were all talking about my life insurance and all of a sudden they all started forcing me to go with my husband on bike as i was not well so i told him we will go some other day but they all forced me so much and later in night when i totally refused to go with him, he slapped me and tortured me, i somehow managed to call my parents and asked them to please come and take me home else he will kill me. as his anger is out of control. My parents reached at 2am morning and manged to take me out of that house and that time father in law said le jaao ise lejana hai to, he was very rude.
Now, i am afraid of my life so i don't want to go back. I feel we have been cheated and everything was fake. My parents have spend so much amount on marriage.
What should i do in this condition?
Asked 5 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
Hi,
I am very thankful for the replies i have received. It has given me strength to fight for myself. I have contacted CAW and i have given written details and complaint to them about each and every torture i have faced at my in-laws place. CAW has given me a date of next week. As mentioned earlier my parents have rescued me at 2 am in morning, so i was not able to take any of my belongings like clothes. What are the next steps i should take which will help me to come out of this trauma and torture ?
Asked 5 years ago
Hi,
Yesterday was my first date at CAW, my in-laws or my husband did not come. I went with my parents, after waiting for almost 1 and a half hour, Ma'am in-charge called me and asked me very politely that what i want. i have clearly mentioned them that i want all my parents hard earned money back which they have spent on my marriage and i asked them as it was a total fraud case i do not want to stay with that person at all. They have asked me to come again next week and to bring all the bills and all the list of items which we have given to my in-laws. My parents have all the bills so we will carry them as well as the list.
I request you all now to kindly guide how to proceed further to ask for annulment of marriage as it was just a fraud and nothing else. Do i have to do FIR as well or CAW will help me to do FIR and to get back my parents money? My parents are retired government employees and they have always paid their taxes on time, did their job well so i understand the value of their money. I am feeling bad for myself and for my parents as well, I have started taking counselling sessions to come out of this trauma and to feel strong internally as i have to fight for myself.. As mentioned earlier i do not have my clothes, footwear, anything. I thought to take women helpline help to go and bring my items back but i am very afraid what if they will do something to me and to my parents ?
Please advise and please help !
Thank you all for your help and support.
Asked 5 years ago