The court or is optional, in case couple do live together or bail will be allowed so he may get bail if you do not live with him and if you both agree then the 498A should be withdrawn mutually.
Getting bail does not meaning of loosing the ground and police will do it's investigation and submitted the chargesheet or final report as the findings will be. Please be aware that the bail is a right and if there are no merit objection it should be allowed