Dear Sir, Madam
I got married in 2004 & have one son 12 years old, though the life was smooth as long as I was able to balance the distance between my spouse and my parents .
The relationship between my parents and my wife was never comfortable as they both have implosive nature , over & above my wife is highly over possessive and highly dominant because of which even during the parent's bad period in spite of being a only son I didn't do much for them and finally I lost them last year , she always finding dirt in me even if I speak to my cousins , female friend , any female colleague or even if I am attending any professional meetings. Checking of phones, email , documents are her usual habit . She can call anybody just to check where am I , who do she/he knows me etc...which really make me feel to embarrassed in front of others . Always threatens to commit suicide, the child also threatens to die.
Due to my profession and other financial needs I need to interact with so many females apart of this I have my personal financial adviser / CA who helped me during my initial period of carrier. Since my wife mistrust me I never shared this relationship with her as I did't want to lose such a helpful FA just because of my wife's doubt.
I always taken silence approch just save our reputation in society , but now things are beyond my control and started effecting my health , work and mental status and I really want to come out with this.
So , please advise on below queries ..
1) Can I take dievorce or judicial permision to live seprate ?
2) What are the reations and cases she can file on me ?
3) WIll I be allowed to moveon in my life ?
4) How can I file protection complaint , so that incase she takes any stupid decision the blame should not come to me .
4) How quickly I can get solution and piece.
I am in deep stress , your help & advice can give me some light to decide my future.
Thank you & regards,
Asked 4 years ago in Family Law