Husband not accepting marriage due to RA problem on medical grounds just after one month of marriage
Iam a women of aged 28 years from Haryana.
I got married in the month of 30th sept 2018 and after one month of marriage I got symptoms of swelling foot and joints.
After medical check -ups which were totally taken care by my parents I was detected by Rheumatoid arthritis.
After the disclosure of reports to my in laws they are not ready to accept me on the basis of medical grounds.
And moreover they made it publically that on the basis of RA iam not capable to conceive child which is absolutely wrong as per medical science.
Please help me how can I resolve this issue with them as they are not ready to accept me on these grounds.
Asked 5 years ago in Family Law
I want to write complain against them, can you please help me to provide draft on below points which they have done with me (with in one of marriage ).Iam detailing my present situation as detailed below:
Mentally Harassment:-they judge my work on the basis of time consumed for each task at home and if same is not adhered then I have to undergone a mental torture jointly by my mother in law and sister in law.
My mother in law and sister law both torturing me on the basis of my day to day activities, as a new member of their family everyone need at least 6 months to adjust with the new family rules and regulations but they expected me to follow all strictly right on the first day when I involved myself in daily house hold work.
No Privacy between me and my husband, he disclosed our personal talking to their family to feel me ashamed.
They are treating me like a working horse only ,without any humanity. Iam elaborating one of such incidence below:
After 7 days of marriage they demand for dowry like Geyser, Gold earring and gifts for ritual
After 15 days of marriage ,I was suffering from cold and fever ,I requested to all my in laws members ,they refused to get my treatment , after un-bearing pain and difficulty to breath , I called up my brother and sister to took me to doctor.
When my sister again visited my in-laws to get my know-how they instructed her to take me at my parental home, only come back when you will be medically fit.
And iam still at my parental home from last six months.
My mother was undergoing a deep depression after my father death but now after this incident the situation got more serious.
The more harm they did with my image is by spreading a Rumors about that due to RA problem , I am will never be capable to conceive baby.
I met with an accident in my young age and was operated in PGI for the same, this surgery know- how was provided to my in-laws before my engagement. They are also demanding to handover those medical reports to them which I have lost and not with me know as they are care taken by my father who is no more now.
I don’t want a divorce at this stage of life as iam the elder one in my home and I have a responsibility to take care of my younger brother and sister, including my mother who is mentally upset due to this .
We have arranged number of meetings with them to solve this matter but till date no positive response is taken by them.
Now they are refusing for meetings also and continuously demanding all my medical history to attend meetings to get matter resolved. Although I have provided them which all I have with them and also fresh reports of mine for the medical tests which are conducted under their monitoring and by the doctors prescribed by them including their family doctor.
Asked 5 years ago