• Can mutual consent divorce effects child custody grounds

I have pending litigation of 498a, dv filed by my wife. I have filed divorce on ground of adultery (strong evidence clip), cruelty ( suicidal tendency, mentally unstable) and Desertion. All cases in 2015. Now in 2017 i filed for child custody on grounds of her suicidal attempt with my daughter before filing 498a, pleadings on oath in various court proceedings by her that she attempted suicide with daughter but was saved, she is searching new grooms ( her matrimonial profile), she has said in court in her pleadings and is on record that he is unable to maintain my child from the maintenance she gets from me . Also her medical report stating her to suffering from impulsive para suicide with adjustment disorder. 
Now she is asking to go with MUTUAL CONSENT DIVORCE BY WITHDRAWING ALL CASES from her ss well as my side pending child custody to be decided by court. I am having daughter 8 years old and living with her mother from 2 and half years. I got some chances to meet with her.
Questions 
1. Will this effect child custody grounds as all cases will be withDrawn.
2. Can we take mutual consent divorce pending child custody.
3. What are pros and cons in doing this.
Asked 6 years ago in Family Law
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18 Answers

1. When both of you opt for divorce on mutual consent , you may both mutually settle the custody of the child before filing the joint petition.

2. Before you agree for mutual consent divorce, let the custody of the child be settled once and for all.

Shashidhar S. Sastry
Advocate, Bangalore
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314 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

Respected sir ...

1- In Your case it will affect only if she mention ground in the statement which will be recorded in front of judge in first and second motion ...It will be much better for you that mention there in statement that child will be live with father and mother had no Right over her ...

2-ya that can be possible just you need to mention in statement that all case from both side will be widdrawn after the decree

3- As I mentioned in ans number 1 follow them you need not to worry about anything ...

Thank you

Dinesh Sharawat
Advocate, Delhi
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12 Consultations

4.9 on 5.0

1.Mutual consent divorce petition is a separate proceeding to be filed under section 13B on certain consent terms.

2. yes child custody can dealt in Mutual Consent petition

3. Mutual Consent divorce itself says that its a divorce decree on mutually agreed terms and condition.

for further clarity contact.

Krinjal S Ahuja
Advocate, Mumbai
16 Answers

4.3 on 5.0

If you withdraw child custody case you would not be granted child custody

2) MCD should contain clause regarding child custody

3) in alternative it should mention that you ha e visitation rights

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
94725 Answers
7536 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

1. All the cases filed by her and by you are distinctly different and independent in nature. So, withdrawing all cases by her before filing MCD petition will not impair your child custody case filed by you. Moreover, she can not withdraw her 498A case since section 498A of IPC is non compoundable. She shall have to execute an affidavit affirming that she had lodged the said complaint out of domestic rage which has now been settled based on which you shall have to file a petition before the high court praying for quashing the FIR filed against you and she should depose confirming her said affidavit if the Judge of the High Court questions her in this regard.

2. You can jointly file the MCD petition after she withdraws all the cases filed by her and you get the FIR filed against you quashed, which will be decided with in 6 & 1/2 months from the date of its filing.

3. Filing MCD application will not adversely affect the child custody case filed by you. It will allow you to get rid of her and if she marries after getting divorced, it will be easier for you to get custody of your child.

Krishna Kishore Ganguly
Advocate, Kolkata
27219 Answers
726 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

You have withdrawn allegations made in divorce petition of adultery and cruelty

It would not be considered as evidence

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
94725 Answers
7536 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

1. If you have irrefutable evidence of her committing adultery recorded before the Court, then it will certainly go in your favour to get custody of your daughter.

2. If you can prove her suicidal tendency with the history of her suicide attempt along with your daughter, then you shall have a very strong case to get custody of your daughter.

Krishna Kishore Ganguly
Advocate, Kolkata
27219 Answers
726 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

For divorce with mutual consent a joint application under section 13B(1) HMA is filed before the Principal Judge, Family Court and the first condition to file application is that the parties to the application should be living separate atleast for one year. All the terms agreed between both of you mutually can be mentioned in the joint petition including custody of your child and withdrawal of all the cases before filing of application of Second Motion.

After passing of 6 months, again second motion is filed and a decree for divorce with mutual consent is obtained from the court. On getting the decree for divorce by way of mutual consent, all the cases should have been withdrawn and you will get the custody of your child. However, Hon'ble SC has waived the condition of 6 months and now if you give valid ground that you can't wait for 6 months, the second motion can be filed 15 days after passing of the First Motion.

Questions

1. Will this effect child custody grounds as all cases will be withDrawn.

Ans.: In case you mutually agree that who will keep the custody of child, you will have no child custody ground. Whatever is agreed can be mentioned in the joint petition.

2. Can we take mutual consent divorce pending child custody.

Ans: When you are taking divorce by mutual consent then make a consent on child custody also. If there is no consent on this ground what for the divorce by mutual consent pending the custody of child.

3. What are pros and cons in doing this.

Ans: Decide patiently mutually, in case she or you want visitation rights, you can mention in the petition. Resolve all issues amicably and reduce in writing in mutual divorce petition. On getting decree for divorce by mutual consent there should be no issue left to be decided.

Dalip Singh
Advocate, New Delhi
1084 Answers
36 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

1) first don't withdraw child custody case and file case RCR against her and then withdraw all cases and ask her to withdraw all cases from her side.

2) Than laterbon file for Mutual Consent Divorce.

Ganesh Kadam
Advocate, Pune
12930 Answers
255 Consultations

4.9 on 5.0

1. Yes. Rather, if you both are ready to withdraw all the cases, why to leave the child custody case? You and your wife must come to consensus on the aspect of child custody too.

2. Not advisable. Do something with respect to child custody too.

Vibhanshu Srivastava
Advocate, Lucknow
9600 Answers
303 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

My question is if the grounds of adultery, pleadings and others evidenCes that has been submitted by her will be void or will be considered as evidenCes in my child custody proceedings after mutual consent divorCe

Ans. You may continue to use it as an evidence, but having once withdrawn all your allegations against your wife in terms of the compromise, you'll not have much vigor to present these evidences before the court with force .

Vibhanshu Srivastava
Advocate, Lucknow
9600 Answers
303 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

1. No this will not effect child custody case

2. Yes you can

3. Custody of rhe child will be decided while considering welfare of the child. The Supreme Court has held that welfare of the child is of paramount importance while deciding the custody of the child.

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
18078 Answers
377 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

As told earlier welfare of the child is of paramount importance while deciding the custody, if you are able to show that welfare of the child will be better in your custody then the custody will be given to you.

Regards

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
18078 Answers
377 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

After mutual consent that evidence will not be filed or read by the court as both of you condone each other's atrocities.

It will be better to execute an agreement with her refer the matter before mediation and settled the matter with all terms and conditions including the child custody.

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Nadeem Qureshi
Advocate, New Delhi
6307 Answers
302 Consultations

4.9 on 5.0

You can take mutual divorce and decide child custody mutually as well as through court. Mutual divorce will not affect child custody case.

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
31951 Answers
179 Consultations

4.1 on 5.0

Questions

1. Will this effect child custody grounds as all cases will be withDrawn.

The child custody to be decided on an agreement and the same to be drawn in the decree so that there is no problem in future in this regard.

2. Can we take mutual consent divorce pending child custody.

The child custody also can be decided in the same mutual consent case

3. What are pros and cons in doing this.

If there is a mutual consent divorce, you may avoid lot of things, i.e., money on litigation, energy and time but you should not go down too far low in the name of settlement

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
84925 Answers
2196 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

I need my child dauGhter and henCe child custody Case will be proceeDed as a case only. My question is if the grounds of adultery, pleadings and others evidenCes that has been submitted by her will be void or will be considered as evidenCes in my child custody proceedings after mutual consent divorCe

If you have decided to support her request for mutual consent divorce, then you may have to withdraw your allegations about her adultery and other issues. If so, you can draw the terms for child custody in the mutual consent divorce itself and can get it drawn in the decree of divorce itself.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
84925 Answers
2196 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

Hi,

In agreement of mutual consent, decide and clarify all your points like child custody with you, no alimony etc.

Ganesh Singh
Advocate, New Delhi
6757 Answers
16 Consultations

4.5 on 5.0

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