• Live in relationship

Hi Sir/Madam,

I am in live in relationship with a north east girl since last three months. And I want to end this relationship. As she is manually sick and she is always blackmailing me for every thing. Even she always creating problem in my work. She wants me to go late and come soon from office and always asking me to do what ever she is saying. She is from north east and she already have two kids and from her fist husband she is not yet divorce. And I am also not yet divorce from my wife yet. Which I have already informed her and to her sis. But her sis is supporting her. I am her sis to take her back to you but her sis is always refusing and threating me and blackmailing me. Please advice what I have to do to end this relationship. Please provide the right path.

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13 Answers

Hello,

You must see that you end up the relationship cordially. Since she belongs to north east police/ administration will have soft corner for any complaint lodged by her.

Talk to her and to her sister that such is the thing (whatever if the reason) and therefore lets part ways mutually.

If however, she does not agrees for the same and files and FIR after you leave her then the only option we will have to is fight the case on the ground that the complaint has been filed for wreaking vengeance.

I hope you understand that you can not stop anyone from filing a complaint against you and Indian laws are in favor of the girl therefore you are advised to act wisely at this juncture.

Let me know if I can be of some help.

Regards

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
18088 Answers
377 Consultations

Hi, there is no legal procedure prescribed in law to end a non - married relationship ... However it is advised to end it smoothly with mutual consent , so that she do not put any false allegations .. You shuold also stop having physical relation with her , without letting her know your intention that you are going to break up .. The reason I'm suggesting you to do so, is to safeguard yourself from the allegation of rape

Hemant Chaudhary
Advocate, Gurgaon
4630 Answers
67 Consultations

If you want to end the relationship you can walk out from the live in relationship. As if her husband comes to know he may file adultery case against you. Try talking to her and tell her , solve it mutually so that she dont file any case against you

Varnika Singh
Advocate, New Delhi
327 Answers
2 Consultations

You cannot be forced to continue the relationship

2) it was consensual relationship with no promise of marriage

3) since she is already married she can claim maintenance from her husband only for herself and her children

4) don’t bow in to her black mail tactics

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
96748 Answers
7804 Consultations

You are at the very tight spot of the decision.If the lady is blackmailing you the she may charge you for rape for sure.

Before it is to late and they put you in any critical issue just try to handle the situation emotionally with lady and move on.

Vimlesh Prasad Mishra
Advocate, Lucknow
6852 Answers
23 Consultations

Dear client ,

U r already committing offense of adultery , her husband can prosecute u .

Al u can do, to wait, she can file rape or molestation, hard to prove as she is married and knowingly living with u ,. but will bring social disrepute.

Yogendra Singh Rajawat
Advocate, Jaipur
22984 Answers
31 Consultations

Hi

You can initiate a complaint against her for threatening you and taking money from you.

If you will be the first to complaint against her then you will have many advantages in this matter.

Thank You

Rahul Jatain
Advocate, Rohtak
5365 Answers
4 Consultations

There's no contract in between you two, for you two are yet not married; and hence, there's no restriction upon you to move out of this live-in.

Neither, you have a child with this female. In any view of the matter, since this female is not yet divorced from her husband, you are in an adulterous relationship with her. Thus, it is even advised that you moved out of this asap.

You can take recourse to legal measures in case she attempts to harass you in lieu of your act of abandoning her.

Vibhanshu Srivastava
Advocate, Lucknow
9659 Answers
307 Consultations

U are married and still cant accept it

Else it is your right to stay in live-in relationship openly

Since you both are married u have to take wise steps

End your relationship with a good note north east have some good support from their state government also secondly in most false cases where a girl accused male for something

Court don't consider much of the evidence

And announces it's verdict

It would be best for you if u shift to some other city for service and anything stay in touch and continue your relationship so that she doesn't get any kind of negative feedback response from your side and end up ur relationship after like 6 months. Don't let her come to your new place

You can always ask the legal help in here right path something you have to find

Amol Chitravanshi
Advocate, Delhi
279 Answers
1 Consultation

File divorce petition in court

P V Reddy
Advocate, Hyderabad
422 Answers
3 Consultations

1. You have committed the offence of bigamy and adultery by having a live in with a woman who is married to another man. It carries an imprisonment of up to 7 years. So end this asap.

2. You may end the relationship but then she can go to police to say that you had intercourse with her by intoxicating her which women usually do to seek vengeance.

3. If and when she files any FIR then apply for anticipatory bail to preempt your arrest.

Ashish Davessar
Advocate, Jaipur
30763 Answers
972 Consultations

Kindly give more fact about the situation. Since you have specific query, We need to have a detailed discussion in order to provide an effective remedy.

Better advice can be given you only after have detail discussion with you. As there are many possibilities.

For further discussion & information about your case feel free to contact me on

Regards

Adv. Vikas Pandey

(M. A. LLB)

Vikas Pandey
Advocate, Delhi
26 Answers

This relationship between you and wife of another person is considered as illegal i.e., adultery and you can be punished for this act of adultery.

Since you both are married to your respective spouses and your marriages have not been dissolved by a decree of divorce by any court, you both cannot claim any marital rights against each other.

Therefore you can ignore her claim and part your ways from her immediately.

If she lodges a complaint against you, it will she who will be fixed for the problems of blackmail, threatening and extortion etc.

You may keep away from her to avoid any problem that may unnecessarily creep in.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
86950 Answers
2334 Consultations

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