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1) You have every right on your husband's home.
2) Please be advised that your husband/ in laws cannot force you to
a) Leave the matrimonial home AND / OR
b) Force you to part with your hard earned salary (including the husband/inlaws) in any circumstances.
3) Domestic violence is currently defined in India by the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act of 2005. According to Section 3 of the Act, “any act, omission or commission or conduct of the respondent shall constitute domestic violence in case it:
a) harms or injures or endangers the health, safety, life, limb or well-being, whether mental or physical, of the aggrieved person or tends to do so and includes causing physical abuse, sexual abuse, verbal and emotional abuse and economic abuse; or
b) harasses, harms, injures or endangers the aggrieved person with a view to coerce her or any other person related to her to meet any unlawful demand for any dowry or other property or valuable security; or
c) has the effect of threatening the aggrieved person or any person related to her by any conduct mentioned in clause (a) or clause (b); or
d) otherwise injures or causes harm, whether physical or mental, to the aggrieved person.
4) You can file the following cases against your husband and in laws:
I) A case under 498a and Section 3&4 of Dowry Prohibition act against your husband and in laws for demanding 5 lakhs from you (asking for money under the guise of not begetting a grand son is also dowry). You can file this case in any police station nearest to you or the women cell in district head quarters.
II) A case under domestic violence act under the following sections
a) Section 19 in The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005-
Residence order restraining your husband and in laws from dispossessing or in any other manner disturbing you from the shared household..
b) Section 20 under The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005.-
Monetary reliefs.— Under this section the Magistrate may direct the respondent to pay monetary relief to meet the expenses incurred and losses suffered by you and the child aggrieved person as a result of the domestic violence.
c) Section 21 under The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005.
Custody orders.—The Magistrate may, at any stage of hearing of the application for protection order or for any other relief under this Act grant temporary custody of any child or children to the aggrieved person or the person making an application on her behalf and specify, if necessary, the arrangements for visit of such child or children by the respondent
A domestic violence case can be filed either in women police cell or in court in accordance to your convenience.
In the event of you being located abroad, you can give general power of attorney to your parent's/ brother and they can also file the above cases for and on behalf of you.
Hope this information is useful.