Dear Concerned,
Lets Look at this from different angles
FIRST please note that no law in the country can force married couple to live with each other if they or any one of them don't want too
a. Your Wife wants Mutual Divorce : YOU are so lucky that your wife has been asking you for Mutual Divorce - It is recommended that you discuss the terms of settlement with your wife and file for mutual divorce. YOU may choose not to reply to the legal notice as the legal notice in Matrimonial Disputes is just a formality and used to support the future allegations / cases. If you want to reply - the reply should be such that you can use it in your future cases - as you would not be able to say differently then this reply at later stages.
Hence it is recommended that - think calmly and walk out silently of this relationship - that too when your wife is asking for mutual divorce.
B. Your wife can not claim share in your ancestral property so just ignore that - also you need not to agree on the financial terms if any proposed by your wife. MUTUAL divorce means where the terms of settlement are agreed by both.
C. As mentioned in your notes as your wife has leveled false allegations please note that these allegations will be
repeatedly used when she files a case of domestic violence , 498A, Maintenance etc. hence if you do not agree to mutual divorce be prepared for all the above cases,
D. MOST importantly as you are based in Allahabad and your wife in Pune you will actually be very disturbed in your Job and everyday lie if she file the above false cases in Poona as you would have to visit courts every now and then - leading to physical, mental as well as financial stress .
E. You have stopped paying the Maintenance - if your wife is working you may choose to not pay maintenance to her but for your daughter please re- restart paying this maintenance - as in any case at later stages also you will be made to pay maintenance of your daughter and also of wife if she is not working.
F. Also if the Poona property you bought was in your wifes name - you need to think what you have to do of th property as well.
Hence It is suggested to go ahead with Mutual Divorce.
we suggest to speak with us free on the subject for a better clarifications on your actions.
Best of Luck