When i call lawyers, they say they cant take up case or ask for too hefty fees, which i cannot afford to pay. While claiming monthly maintenance, can i also claim money which my sons took from me which was kept for my daughter's marriage and later didnt give back and my daughter had to take a personal loan from bank for her marriage which was repaid by my son in law. That was the only money i had after my husband passed away, kept for daughters marriage. That money was used by my 2nd son to purchase 1 bhk flat. Do i have a share in his flat as it also has my money?
The suggested lawyers cannot demand money because it is a free service and they are supposed to do free service. You can inform the legal aid about this demand, they will arrange another advocate who will render free service.
About the money given to your son, if you have any proof you can claim it but that also it should be within 3 years from the date of giving it to him. You cannot claim a share in his property.