Mental torture by husband
Hi,
I am 10 months South Delhi based arranged married women (28 yr) working in a MNC with a decent salary. We met via matrimony site.The Guy works in a MNC and they stays in Guragon village. We met and got married in 4 months.My mistake was just that i could not imagined that it wud be a real village with people of village mentality. I met him and he is completely opposite whatthey actually are.He used to wear branded clothes with sophisticated and impressive personality.
Before the marriage the guy made fake promises about his family status and family source of income. He lied that his parents are super rich and we don't have to worry about them.They said before marriage that they have 24*7 maid, so you don't have to work , you just have to manage the maid.They got some property sold some time ago and made a Lavish Bunglaw to lure girl's party.They went under Debt of 10 Lakh rupee as well because of that which i got to know after marriage.The time my family visited the place they pretended that they have a lot of properties and so much inflow of rent and there is no money issue.The guy worked in a MNC with a decent pkg. So my family did not bothered much and thought they are well to do and good going people
But the reality is that they are typical raw haryanvi village ppl with Hukka, Bidi and Buffaloes with no source of family income.The time i got the doubt about their status, it was too late to cancel the marriage.
me and my husband give money every month for the household.
Its been 10 months,I am not able to adjust in this dirty environment.
His dad gets drunk daily and does drama.He don't say directly to me but uses abusive language to his wife. His dad always taunts me regarding my attire and the fact that i dont give my full salary to them. Also he says "You have to take permission to go to your home. No need to stay there else we wont allow you next time to go to your place."
I requested my husband to move out to a decent place and we can continue support his family financially and we can visit his parents every weekend.I told him that his parents can live with us as well. if they ll stay in a gud place they might feel good.But he is not moving out with me , instead he is ready to leave me. He said he will do second marriage with the girl who will do household work and her complete salary to fulfil the debt they have on them. He started doing fights every now and then whenever i say anything against his family. He says he needs permission from his family to fulfil the marriage commitment.
I am feeling betrayed, cheated and helpless. His parents revealed that they brought me as bahu so that i can give my salary to them and do household work.You are not a gud bahu.
Please suggest what can i do now. My parents brought me with them as his parents started insulted me every day and My husband started doing fights almost daily, I am also running under depression as suggested by doctors. He stopped talking to me. He has left me and saying he will do second marriage unless u stay in this village and you give your complete salary to us.
Please suggest what should i do now?? I cannot live in that place. please suggest me.
I am living with my biological parents from the past few days.
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
BIt i don't want to giVe him divorce.my life would be spoiled.I am totally shattered.
Asked 8 years ago