You have narrated your story but have not stated that what is the relief you expect and what advise or opinion do you need the lawyers here to suggest you.
However i will be too early to form an opinion about your husband because nowhere you have stated that he tortured you or had ill treated you, you just blame that he needs money from you and he never spent any money on you.
If he is not seem interested in continuing the married life with yo anymore, you may ask to him to be frank about that and decide if he is ready to give divorce on mutual consent, or if he is needed to be made alright, he may be given a treatment through a marriage counselor advising to put him on a right track.
If he is arrogant and keeps torturing you even mentally, you may plan to file a DV case against him. If he persistently demands money from you, better warn him to stop his such activities or else he may face dowry harassment offences.
Consult a local advocate and take advise in person.