Divorce is not favored or encouraged, and is permitted only for grave reasons. The first year of marriage is when the haze of romance and lust lifts, and reality begins to set in. Instead of spending time together doing fun things, couples start facing the reality of life. Newly weds are often confronted with differences that seemed unimportant or non-existent .Getting married means redefining boundaries and being a life partner with someone new involves cutting the umbilical cord. Parents often have a more difficult time with this than the children they are marrying off, and want to stay connected in ways that can disrupt the marriage.One of the most important aspects of a healthy marriage is mutual respect. Lack of respect in the relationship leads to Divorce. No problem in a marriage can be solved without open, honest communication.
The following are the Grounds for Divorce under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955
1. Adultery
2. Cruelty
3. Desertion - continuous period of 2 or more years
4. Conversion - to a religion other than Hindu
5. Mental Disorder - abnormality
6. Leprosy
7. Venereal Disease
8. Not Heard
9. No Resumption of Co-habitation
It is not advisable for getting a divorce from US court.Mere argument not amount to cruelty. Try for mutual divorce. IN YOUR CASE getting divorce and maintenance is difficult if you have a valid ground for divorce.Acts of cruelty are behavioral manifestations stimulated by different factors in the life of spouses, and their surroundings and therefore, each case has to be decided on the basis of its own set of facts. Mental cruelty can consist of unusually callous, neglectful and deliberately harassful conduct, false accusation of adultery or unchastity, false charge of impotency, undue familiarity with third person, deprivation of property, drunkenness, false criminal charge by one spouse against the other, reprehensible conduct, refusal to have marital intercourse, refusal to consummate marriage, communication of disease, demand for dowry etc