You can enter into MOU for settlement of disputes 

2) it should provide that husband would not make any demands for dowry 

3) provide separate house for you and child and pay x amount as maintenance 

3) that you would agree to cooperate in quashing ofFIR in  HC 

1. You have already filed  498A and DV Act. Once bail is obtained then husband and his family members do not feel the heat anymore in 498A unless and until the court holds them guilty at trial. Now you have to prosecute your cases on merits.

2. Whether or not you have to trust them is your personal decision. It may happen that after withdrawal.quashing of cases they may again harass you.

See they are just doing this to get away with the cases you can proceed with your FIR. See in case there intention is not right you should not withdraw the cases .

See you can without withdrawing cases in case there is difference then you can withdraw simultaneously in case they remain same proceed with all cases and seek maintenance also for you and your child.

You are being provided separate accommodation 

2) litigation is long drawn and expensive proposition 

3) DV cases take 6 years to be disposed of 

4) 498A cases 10 years to be disposed of 

Don't take any case back and file maintenance case under section 125 CrPC. 

It would be your sole decision to trust him or not. You are best person and in best position to form an opinion in reposing faith in him once again.

In the event of reconciling with your husband you should not withdraw the cases first. Even during the pendency of the cases you can go and stay with your husband for some time. This is essential to know his actual intention.

Once you  find everything in place you can later withdraw the case.

If you trust them and take the cases back and they start the same behavior again then the case filed by you will be a weak case and they will say before the court that you have the habit of filing the cases. 

It will be better if you first analyze the situation for your self and then take the case back from the police. 

Regards 

- Since , you have already lodged your complaint under the provisions of D.V.Act , and there are FIR u/s.498a/504/34 IPC , then you should not worry for the consequences . 

- If, you are intersted to continue your matrimonial life with your husband , then before withdrawing any case from the court , you should mention before the court , that for a particular time , you want to check their behaviour after accompaying with him.

- Further, if you found ,every acts satsifactory, then you can settle the matter of dispute any time as per you wish.

- Further, No magisterate has power to finish/quash the FIR under section 498A/504/34 IPC ,.except High Court, hence you will have much time for your decision.

- In future , you have right to refile the cases also , specially D.V.Act and maintenance case under section 125 , if they repeated the same offence one again. 

- Otherwise, you can proceed the cases for its merit , but the decision of the case will take much time.

Good luck and dont forget to rating Positively.

You can file a joint memo in the court seeking adjournment of 3 to 6 months, so as to enable both the parties to reconcile. (Court more often than not, will give time as requested)

If you want to take a chance, you can withdraw the cases, with a condition that, if they misbehave with you, you will take steps to restore the said cases.

In both the above scenarios you need to convince both the court and your counter parts.

Nops, cases should be withdraw only by submitting settlement in writing in court with he liberty to file afresh if husband backed from commitment.

Before withdrawing ask them deposit good amount in your account. Don't insist for separate house by yourself, otherwise usband will get valid defence that you are forcing him to stay away from parents. 

You have several options. Normally divorce petitions filed by husband will be rejected. 

 i would like to suggest you to talk with your husband and on the basis of compromise you have to withdraw all of the cases lodged by you against your husband then only you may live with your husband peacefully. 

No you should not take back the case ask your Advocate to take long dates so that in between that period you should return to your home and check your in-laws behaviour towards you. 

You can also file a case for maintenance under section 125 CrPC

If you want to stay in separate house file consent terms on mediation of DV and get the alimony and house for you and child and get separated. 

You have yourself expressed that they are playing drama then how can you trust their words?

You may not trust their words to withdraw your criminal complaints against them.

Until there is no hold on them by way of pending criminal cases they will not come for any compromise, they will abandon you totally and you will be left destitute.

You can file a maintenance case also for you and your child besides DV case. 

You pretty well know that they will again torture you which may be a risk to your life as well as to that of your child, you may better not trust them so soon.

You can remain silent about this at least for another 6 months after which you can jump into more vigorous actions against them to get releif.