1)You can take her to family counselor and tell counselor all your problems and narrate all above her behavior status as well.

Visit avmarriage counsellor to resolve your differences 

2) if counselling fails file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty 

3) wife abusing husband amounts to mental cruelty and is ground for divorce 

4) you have to prove allegations made in divorce petition 

1. This is more like a personal problem than a legal once a hence you need to resolve this amicably than taking legal recourse.

2. Talk to your wife in private to know her reasons behind this weird conduct. There must be some reasons behind such misadventure.

3. Take her to holiday trip which often works wonder to iron  out the differences. Take that plunge. 

1. See you have to take charge and talk to her of misbehaviour you both can take some marriage counseling and you can tell her that this behaviour of her will lead to separation and divorce only it won't yield any thing good

If she agrees to change and there is any difference then you can lead the life with her other wise you need to file a divorce case on ground of cruelty against her.

1. Since she does not want to separate you have to decide what you want. You can initially ask her to go for counselling through a marriage counsellor, and if this does not fructify then you may file a petition for dissolution of marriage on the ground of cruelty.

2. If you take the plunge in legal battle with her then be prepared to face cases of 498A, DV Act and 125 CrPC.

Hello,

As of now this does not seems to be a legal problem. Talk to your wife and try and resolve the issue. 

if that is not possible then you may file a case of divorce on the ground of cruelty, and the wife in retaliation to it might file cases on you. 

Regards  

Dear Sir,

Rude behavior has reasons behind it. If a person has faced tough time / rude behavior / subjected to criticism / harassed for a longer period of time then their behavior pattern changes and they normally react in a rude manner.
In India the attitude of males towards females is not good. Women are stilll considered as sex objects. Passing lewd remarks, touching them inappropriately is also a normal practice. So they tend to behave rude with all men.

Taking an assertive approach might help, but there are other things that might help as well. I’m not sure how available psychotherapy is in India, but if it is available, it might benefit your marriage if you both went to marriage counseling. If counseling is available, but your wife won’t agree to go, well then, it might benefit you as an individual to go. A sympathetic listener who can help guide you through the work of learning to be assertive could be a benefit. If psychotherapy is not available or affordable for you, perhaps you can at least read a book about assertiveness. “Your Perfect Right” is a classic work in this field, and should be available used for an inexpensive price on the Internet.

Dear Karan ,

Please don't get provoked because of her behaviour. Please give the relationship some time. 

Please ask the family friends to settle issues.

If still there are compatibity issues, you can file Divorce. For more issues, please contact me through the Kaanoon and avail the services.

You can approach the mediation centre In court of your local jurisdiction.

Since you have mentioned that you dont want to spoil your relation, you have one option of involving her parents' and seeking their help and intervention in this matter by sharing your concerns with them.  You may do this in writing as a sort of proof for the future.  This may irk your wife and cause her to increase her harassment all the more on you. Second option is to undergo marriage counselling. 

If this too fails, then start collecting proofs of her misbehaviour, such as record her during her outbursts, lodge NCs against her.  This will eventually help you when you do decide to move the Court for seeking Divorce. 

Be bold and tell her that our marriage will not long lasting, if she continue like that. find out her weak spot and attack. Unless you change your character, very difficult to live with her. When she is not worried about society, why you are afraid, Give her properly

I think you need marriage counseling as there is nobody in your family to look after both of you you have to take the help of marriage counsellor as well as psychiatrist as this is very new marriage and you have to give some time to your wife buy marriage counselling her behaviour may be corrected and in case nothing happens after all then you have the option to go for divorce but at this moment it is better to go to the marriage counselor so that your life can be good I don't think there is another problem other than the behaviour and rest is ok

1. As per the information mentioned in the present query, makes it clear that she has been trying to her level best to harass you till every extent.
2. As you said that she doesn’t want to get separate, but now things would depend upon you as to what exactly you wish to have from this marriage.
3. If you want to go for divorce then you can go by proving her acts as cruelity on you, and on this very ground you would get the divorce.
4. Rest, is for you to decide as to how to proceed further, rest I also give marriage counseling, so if you wish you can go for the same, at least once to make her understand.

You cannot stop her from behaving in this manner if you dont have any control over her.

She is taking advantage of your humbleness  hence you may sometimes should backfire so that she realises that you too have some feelings.

You may decide continue the married life or not if the things are beyond your control; and is depressing you to the core.

You need to make her understand and if she is not willing then divorce is the only remedy. You opt for mutual divorce as well.