• Visitation rights of father

My husband is an alcoholic, a chain smoker, doesn't take care of my child' s expenses. In fact my child was suspended from pre school due to non payment of the fees twice. My parents are taking care of all his needs n mine too including education etc. I don't want to give visiting rights to my husband, I am certain he will be a bad influence for my child. What can I do
Asked 5 years ago in Family Law
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25 Answers

If there is a court order for visitation and you stop visitation without the judge's approval, the non-custodial parent may take you to court for contempt or to get an injunction. 

Mohammed Mujeeb
Advocate, Hyderabad
19299 Answers
32 Consultations

4.7 on 5.0

It appears that no case is pending in court as yet as regards the visitation or custody of the child.

if that is so then there is nothing to ponder over this issue at this stage.

If such suit is filed by father in court, then you can highlight these negative personal traits of the father so the curt remains reluctant to grant him visitation rights.

Devajyoti Barman
Advocate, Kolkata
22821 Answers
488 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

You can contest the custody of the child and visitation if husband files for same on the grounds he has deserted child and he is not good for the welfare of the child the court may reject his request of visitation.

Shubham Jhajharia
Advocate, Ahmedabad
25514 Answers
179 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

Hello,

If the custody of the child is with you then he will have to file a case for visitation and while deciding the same the welfare of the child will be of paramount importance, and if you bring these facts on record then the court will not give visitation rights to him. 

 

Regards  

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
18078 Answers
377 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

1) You have to put limitations to his visitation in the court that judge has to reduce his visitation rights instead twice a month it should be once in two month.

Ganesh Kadam
Advocate, Pune
12930 Answers
255 Consultations

4.9 on 5.0

In event husband makes application to court for visitation rights you can oppose his application on grounds husband is alcoholic, chain smoker , refuses to pay school fees of child etc 

 

court may deny him visitation rights 

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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7529 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

Visiting rights are ordinarily not denied to a parent. Even if he is an alcoholic it will not have any bad influence on the child if he is given the right to visit the child for a few hours once a week. Most likely he will not be under the influence of alcohol when he comes to visit the child. 

 

Ashish Davessar
Advocate, Jaipur
30763 Answers
972 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

If your child is in your custody and you both are living separately then he only has file a case for child custody and visitation rights.

You can strongly object to his claim based on the grounds that you may establish before court.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
84911 Answers
2194 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

  1. As per the information mentioned in the present query, makes it clear that at any cost you do not want your husband to even have visiting rights to your child.
  2. And yes, though there is a presumption in law to not to evade this right for being a father, but also come with some condition/ pre-requirement at the father’s end also.
  3. If he files any petition/ application for the visiting rights then I will advise you to contest it with all legal proceedings with you.

Rest, you can contact me through Kaanoon for any further legal assistance.

 

Good Luck and God Bless You...!

Sanjay Baniwal
Advocate, South Delhi
5474 Answers
13 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

Dear Madam,

At first you or anyone can't stop father from meeting his child. But if you can show that childs father is criminal or in jail or of bad character or so on the court will not allow him to meet or if permits than with strick instructions.

Yes. If the custodial parent files a complaint or an injunction to the court, in order to deny the noncustodial parent, their visitation rights, the court may grant so, on the basis of the complaint. The court may call for a hearing where it seeks to establish whether the noncustodial parent is not fit to receive visitation rights due to his abusive nature towards the child or his tendency to affect the child immorally.

 

Netravathi Kalaskar
Advocate, Bengaluru
4952 Answers
27 Consultations

4.8 on 5.0

if he applies in court for visitation charges oppose his application on the above grounds

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
31946 Answers
179 Consultations

4.1 on 5.0

Dear client,

Restrict him from entering your house, any forceful act , call the police, if he will approach court, visitation will deny on this ground (drink, smokers, no expanses etc) only and you can also claim maintenance and child expanses through court. 

Yogendra Singh Rajawat
Advocate, Jaipur
22633 Answers
31 Consultations

4.4 on 5.0

If your husband files for visitation rights in court you should defend the same by taking plea of negligent behaviour of your husband and his chronic alcoholism which has caused substantial damage to the child with the help of documentary evidence and  you would also have to prove that his behaviour has not changed a bit in years and is likely to cause substantial damage to the healthy development of the child.

Siddharth Jain
Advocate, New Delhi
6303 Answers
102 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

Hi, I think you have filed petition in court. If you do not want to give visitation rights to your husband, you need to show the conduct, his negligence, irresponsiblity, carelessness of your husband to court. And let the court decide. 

Akash Gupta
Advocate, Gurgaon
66 Answers
2 Consultations

4.8 on 5.0

You can file a suit regarding modification of visitation 

  • Have custody and support agreements modified;
  • Seek court-ordered counseling for the malicious parent; or
  • Obtain supervised visitation.

G Suresh
Advocate, Chennai
394 Answers
5 Consultations

4.9 on 5.0

Are there any pending litigations between you two ?

You are living separately? 

These questions would make me understand your situation better, as per the question, YES you can restrain him if certain circumstances are in favour( questions asked above).

Abhishek Sharma
Advocate, Chandigarh
128 Answers
2 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

Husband is bound to maintain wife and child even if he is unemployed 

 

her cannot shirk his responsibilty and refuse to maintain wife and child 

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
94710 Answers
7529 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

See you should file a case under Crpc 125 seeking maintenance for you and child and you can contest child custody based on the fact that husband is bad influence for child and further he has defaulted in fee and he is not thinking of welfare of child.

Shubham Jhajharia
Advocate, Ahmedabad
25514 Answers
179 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

If he do not want to have any visitation rights on your child you cannot force him.

If he refuses to give maintenance to your child, you can file a petition under section 125 cr.p.c. seeking maintenance legally from him, let the court decide after hearing both the sides, he cannot escape the liability.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
84911 Answers
2194 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

For maintanance from your husband you may file under section 125 of criminal procedure code before the family court also you can approach the magistrate under section 12 of prevention of woman from domestic violance act for moneytary relief. After the order if your husband will not pay you maintanance then only you can pray for attacment of his property. 

Mohammed Mujeeb
Advocate, Hyderabad
19299 Answers
32 Consultations

4.7 on 5.0

He may say anything he needs to provide you and child the maintenance.

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
31946 Answers
179 Consultations

4.1 on 5.0

You can get a restraining order against him in the court, this will restrain him from meeting you and your child and entering your house. 

Secondly, does he earn something? do he work? do you know his salary ?

Abhishek Sharma
Advocate, Chandigarh
128 Answers
2 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

File a case of maintenance and claim maintenance for yourself and for the child under section 125 of the code of criminal procedure

 

Regards  

Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
18078 Answers
377 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

Dear Madam,

The following helpful information may kindly be read:

The thinking has shifted from custody and access being the ‘right of a parent’ to being the ‘right of a child’. The principle on which custody is decided is the ‘best interests of the child’. Therefore, the parent who can take better care of the child’s emotional, educational, social and medical needs is favored.

The earning capacity of the parent does not determine custody, but the capacity to provide a safe and secure environment does. Even a mother who is a housewife can gain custody of the child and the father will be asked to provide child support.

The mother is the preferred custodial parent when the child is less than five years old. The opinion of a child who is over nine years old will be considered.

The non-custodial parent can get different types of access to the child based on circumstances and convenience. For example, court could grant weekly, fortnightly, daily or monthly visitation rights. It can be day or overnight access. It could also be free access with no fixed schedule, but as per the parents’ and the child’s convenience.

The parents can agree to a one-time amount or a staggered payment at different stages of the child’s educational life or a monthly payment with incremental increase. The child support should cover the child’s educational and nominal lifestyle expenses.

The court is parens patriae or the ultimate guardian of the child. So the child’s property is protected by law, and terms of custody, visitation and child support can be altered in changed circumstances in the interest of the child.

 

Netravathi Kalaskar
Advocate, Bengaluru
4952 Answers
27 Consultations

4.8 on 5.0

If we can pay for alcohol and cigarettes on a daily basis then he can definitely pay for maintaining his child. furthermore it is the liability of the husband to maintain his wife and children as per law.

In order to do that you will have to file a petition under section 125 of the code of criminal procedure in order to claim maintenance for yourself and your child.

Siddharth Jain
Advocate, New Delhi
6303 Answers
102 Consultations

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