1. If genuinely it is the daughter who does not want to go, it does not amount to misconduct. However, establishing that it is the daughter and not you can be quite difficult. The only way to avoid it is for you to stay out and not be the messenger. If the daughter is refusing to go, ask him to come home and collect the daughter or bring the daughter to an agreed place and then record the entire exchange.
2. From what you have mentioned, i understand that he is delaying the property transfer as he wants to do both the transfers simultaneously. He is worried that if he transfers the property in your name, you will not cooperate for the other transfer. However, do not under any circumstances, do away with the property clause as unresolved, this will cause you much more hassle than it is causing now. It is necessary that all issues stand resolved and/or dissolved at the time of putting an end to your marriage.
Since you have mentioned that are desirous of putting an end to your marriage, withdrawing your consent is not the correct solution. Also why should you withdraw and let it reflect badly on you when your husband is the one who is not complying? What you can do is that on the next date of hearing, try approaching the Judge and ask her to intervene and speak to your husband to resolve this issue.