From examining all the facts of your problem I want to say that-
I have come across many cases like this. I can understand your problem. It is unfortunate that you could not lead a happy married life. There are some incidents that happen in your life and those incidents are so strong that they change your DNA. At times, despite our best efforts, life takes a turn for the worst. We may have wanted different things from life, but life’s got its own plan as well. A bad marriage is something which nobody hopes for, but at times, that’s exactly what we are given and forced to face head on. Marriages are hard. Divorces…even harder. Nobody enters marriage thinking about a divorce in the end. If some are unable to cope with the harsh realities of marriage, the only viable option in front of them is to approach the Court and seek legal separation. As you know marriage doesn’t guarantee that you will be together forever, it’s only paper. It takes trust, respect, friendship, faith and understanding to make it last. Moreover, a relationship without trust is like a car without gas, you can stay in it as long as you want but it won’t go anywhere.
I have observed that religious conversion has become the subject of passionate debate in contemporary India. From the early 20th century onwards, it has surfaced again and again in the political realm, in the media and in the courts. During the last few decades the dispute has attained a new climax in the plethora of newspapers, journals, and books whose pages have been devoted to the question of conversion. Religious conversion has always been a very sensitive social issue not only because of the reasons that it has psychological concerns of religious faith but also because it has wider socio-legal and socio-political implications. You have a fundamental right to live your life with peace and with happiness. Nobody has a right to force you or blackmail you to change your religion.
You can also file a police complaint if you’re in laws are threatening you. I would suggest you to visit family counselor in Delhi. A family counselor is an individual who treats married couples or family members in order to help them overcome mental or emotional problems that may result within the home. The family counselor will diagnose any disorders and provide effective treatment measures in which to help the family members resolve their issues.
If the differences are not sorted out with the help of family counselor then the only option is to file for divorce on the ground of mental cruelty under the special marriage act.
If you need any help you can contact my assistant to book a consultation. I will help you.
SHRI GOPAL VERMA
ADVOCATE ON RECORD
SUPREME COURT OF INDIA