1. You have made series of serious mistakes in connection with your marriage,
2. He did not want to marry you but still you insisted for the marriage. You should have filed a rape case for having s*x with you with the promise of marriage and then denying the marriage and taught him a good lesson which you did not do. You marriaed him after police intervention knowing fully well that he is not willing. You stayed together with him and indulged into physical relationship and concieved after going to police,
3. You should have recorded all his cruel acts and filed 498A complaint which you did not do,
4. In place of wihdrawing the annulment petition he made you asking for a long date and refrained you from attending the Court which he attended causing huge loss to your defense,
5. Even after all these acts of your husband you are giving reason for your inaction as 'I wanted to save te marriage'. You were refusing to accept the reality that it was your blunder to marry him and there is nothing to save since there was no real marriage of hearts,
6. You slao should not have asked for his permission to go to Bangalore. You should have entered into his flat at Bangalore which nobody including him and/or his landlord can stop him from doing since you are his legally wedded wife,
7. Now, go to bangalore and before entering into his flat visit the nearest police station and lodge a complaint stating that you fear that your husband and/or his landlord may physically prevent your legitimate entry into your matriminial house,
8. After that stay at Bangalore and lodge a 498A complaint agsint him,
9. You can also file a DV case seeking residential right and maintenance,
10. If he proposes, agree for mutual consent divorce after being substantially compensated.