Married for 8 years.Triplets 2 boys and a girl,6 years old. Husband is an impotent-erectile dysfunction(zero mobility,low count).Kids born though IVF treatment. Couple of years ago I met my old college mate and became close and eventually we slept together 3-4 times. He lives in another state. He is married and there was no serious relationship(no marriage plans) just truly sexual desires and my h found recently- one pic he holding me from my back and i was tipsy and another me kissing in his cheek. I know that is wrong. My marriage was always sexless,no respect and always taken for granted. Minus no sex,there was no life, just raising my triplets and surviving made me wanting this collmate. Husband has filed a case against me praying for divorce. I accepted for divorce but with mutual consent. Now he is asking for child custody and divorce. I cant give my kids to him,he is not a good father. His plan is to send kids to his village and his relatives would raise them. I cant do this to my kids, I need them in my life. I am not in relationship with the coll mate anymore. All I need is my kids.We are living in the same house,I take care of our(me and kids) expense. I was working earlier and was forced to quit suspecting that I have multiple affairs around the city I quit and became a stay at home mother and suddenly he filed this divorce case when I went to my parent place for a month
Kids are more attached to me and my parents. I want my kids and Can I demand for alimony?
Guidance pl.
Asked 5 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
Thank you everyone for your response. Firstly he filed a case against me giving all allegations and thats why he need divorce didnt ask for child custody in that petition. So I agreed for divorce if he withdraws the petition and go for mutual consent. Afresh he is adding child custody in this MCD,However I denied to give him child custody,the case been not settled and forwarded to court.He is challenging me that he will drag me to streets and post all those pics everywhere. I am afraid that will I be stamped characterless and cant be a fit to raise kids and the court handover kids to him? Can he prove his infertility and grab kids? I am very worried on child custody I want them solely. Pls advice.
Asked 5 years ago