• Wife tried to commit suicide on 30/05/2018

I got married on 09/05/2003. We have three kids, where one daughter is suffring from eplipsy for 13 years and she became MR with 47% IQ level. In general there is a little high stress at house. On 30/05/2018 at 23:00 my wife tried to commit suicide by hanging herself by cieling fan with chunni after some debate with me. However she was almost dead but after giving mouth oxigen and rushed to hospital we able to save her life. And she is recoverd and doing well. Hospital has treated her under MLC case and police intimated but police did not come and record her statement yet. Although she was also dicharged from hospital and she at her parents house at Gwalior. Now, her parents us trying to blame my mother for this incident because my mother was living with us at noida since last two weeks. But this is not a case now i am trying to find out the reason of this incident and came to know that she had tried and threaten for suicide in past also but her parents justfied by she has some gohst after prayer and bhaba intrvation she could recover ( but i did not believe that i ignored incidents) and truned to normal life. But now i am seriously concerns about her health and my family future life. How to proceed for future with such tandancy.. I am in touch with Dr. And phsycratist. Please advice me what will be legal implication of this incident and what should be my future caurse if action legaly.
Asked 7 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Muslim

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Hello sir , it is advisable to get a medical report from her phsycatrist about her mental condition.. The report will tend to save you and your family from any future litigations..For further doubts you can contact me in person.. Thank You

Hemant Chaudhary
Advocate, Gurgaon
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consult a psychiatrist

2) based on doctor report your wife should take the prescribed medicine

3) inform police about wife constant threats and attempt to commit suicide

4)consult a family counsellor to resolve your differences

5) if wife blames you for her attempt to suicide police would file case against you

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
99831 Answers
8148 Consultations

You can file a Complaint to the police regarding her suicidal tendencies and medical papers if any.

Prashant Nayak
Advocate, Mumbai
34550 Answers
249 Consultations

If the Police based on her or her parents statement register FIR you and your parents may be arrested so it's advisable in such situation to take anticipatory bail from court.

Secondly it seems that your wife may be suffering from some illness in such situation take a doctor report and file for divorce and seek custody of your children from court. Since in future if she harms herself and dies your family will be put to hardship so better apply for divorce

Swarnarka Chowdhury
Advocate, Mysore
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1. To save yourself from future legal implications in the event she indeed commit suicide it is essential that you take good care of you.

2. Take her regularly to doctor and get her treated and keep all the proof of her treatment.

3. The care and usual love and affection may every well cure her disease to large extent.

4. If not then also you can not be falsely accused of any offence.

Devajyoti Barman
Advocate, Kolkata
23655 Answers
537 Consultations

1) Its totally depends upon her statement given to police at the time of investigation, accordingly that statement police will take action against you.

2) For future legal course of action you try to give information that wife had tried attempt to suicide and if same incident happen's you will be not responsible for it.

Ganesh Kadam
Advocate, Pune
13008 Answers
267 Consultations

Sir, first of all inform the police about her suicide attempt and her previous attempts before marriage.

Secondly get a report of Psychiatrist and if possible get her regular counselling and therapy sessions.

Further keep her in constant care and get her statements recorded before police that you or your family are not responsible in any way.

If she give these statements you all are protected no matter what her parents say and i can advise you after taking due care keep her with you her family might be a possibility can influence her but when she is living with you then care must be there.

Shubham Jhajharia
Advocate, Ahmedabad
25513 Answers
179 Consultations

Firstly, there has been a presumption in the law that if the wife commits suicide or attempt for the within the preriod of seven years of the marriage then first finger will go to the husband and his family, but you are save from that as it has been more than one decade that you got married.

Secondly, still if she says something about you or your mother then you may be in trouble for the time being as she has committed suicide and police is bound to look into this.

Thirdly, so I advice you to ask for not making any such statement by any how.

Fourthly, rest is says no to it then you can take the help of your house condition to come out of it as well as the prior life with the wife including your mother.

Fifthly, it would also be great if there was no prior complain any time in the past for you or mother about bad behaviour with her.

Good Luck...!

Sanjay Baniwal
Advocate, South Delhi
5477 Answers
13 Consultations

You should give an intimation to police stating that your wife has suicidal tendencies she has already tried to commit suicide in past and you shall not be held liable if your wife commits suicide in future.

Also try to get the written opinions and medical records of your wife from the psychiatrist and doctor as it can be used in court later to prove that your wife is suffering from mental disorders.

Siddharth Jain
Advocate, New Delhi
6617 Answers
102 Consultations

You refusing to take your wife back at this stage may create more problems so what i would advise you is to have a joint meeting between both the families at this stage whereby you can obtain in writing that you were no where responsible for this act of your wife. Thereafter you can put a suggestion that your wife undergoes counselling. I think if you handle this entire situation emotionally rather than legally, you can save your marriage as from what you have mentioned, you have had a relatively smooth sailing married life.

Radhika Mehta
Advocate, Mumbai
484 Answers
4 Consultations

If she is under any mental pressure or acting on a command from subconscious, she may be taken to a psychiatrist for treatment.

Even a psychologist can give her advise about this.

If you feel that you cannot tolerate this anymore then you may think of filing a divorce cae on the grounds of mental cruelty .

You may think twice before taking any kind action against her.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
90028 Answers
2497 Consultations

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