Firslty, the complaints which you have made are never useless as they would save you from further false allegations on you infuture by your wife.
Secondly, if you go for mutual divorce then you may have to pay a little more alimony despite the fact that she is also earning good.
Thirdly, I advice you to straight away file a divorce case on the ground of cruelity as what she does and says amounts to cruelity.
Fourthly, child custody may be given to her only, and you would also be asked to pay maintenane for the child, but yes you would be getting visiting rights for sure.
Rest, you are free to share anything in future.