In-laws tortured by daughter-in-law
My brother got married in 2015 june...my brother is very naïve person who has always been most protected child..he has never used abusive language and shouted on anyone.. so is our family..we are well educated middle class god fearing family from indore..never dealt with quarrelsome ppl.
our daughter in law is from a small town,she is brought up in Haryana, where shouting and quarrelling is way of life. she initially acted very nice girl and won the trust of my brother. my parents hardly stayed with her for 3 months after marriage and went to US to visit my sister and came back after 6 months, my father had heart problem, he had to undergo surgery and could not come to me in Sydney I am their 2nd daughter, so they stayed with her for 9 months at a stretch and came to me after that..within these 9 months this girl came up with several issues with my mother..every alternate day she picked fights with them...she called them names and used disrespectfull words. my brother could not do much and was just a spectator...she used to put unnecessary allegations on my mother...later after staying with me at Sydney when they returned she demanded her husband to move to another house when he did not listen..she walked out of house and stayed in a PG for 3-4 weeks until my brother rented another house. my parents was also living in a rented house. now even after separating she keeps fighting for money jewellery and blames my mother of stealing some money and jewellery and often warns us of filing a police complaint and sending us all to jail..my brother is afraid of divorce and so he keeps his mouth shut.
she openly tells us that all law would be favouring us she can complaint abt the domestic violence and dowery. her relatives are goons in Haryana and her mother is a pro in handling legal cases,she is already fighting many property cases..this wont be a big issue for her to handle. but for us it is a big issue..we have never had any disputes with anyone , we are afraid of our social reputation we do not have money and knowledge to fight long legal battles I am afraid pls advice is there anything we can do that can safeguard us in future , in case she complaints abt us is there any complaint we can file prior to her (without her knowledge) that can safeguard us when she files a complaint...pls advise we are really tensed.
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu