About applying for divorce
I got married in November 2013. She was studying at that time and she is the only daughter of my brother-in-law's mother's brother. So an arranged marriage and it was decided that her studies would be completed even after marriage.(1 year was remaining). We tried to convince her to get herself transferred to Mumbai (my hometown) and continue your studies here but she refused. But, she flunked and 1 yr got extended to 1.6 yrs. I used to travel all the way from Mumbai to her hometown just to meet and maintain relations with her parents. She eventually managed to clear all her papers. Now, we again tried to persuade her to do her internship (1 year) from Mumbai but she refused again. That is where I felt the discomfort and lack of understanding but since we all were related, I had to keep my mouth shut and let the things happen. Note - Her parents did not have any take on this. I wonder why ?! Still, I managed to keep my calm just because of my parents, my sister and my brother in law.She has visited and stayed in Mumbai many a times but gradually she started showing her reality.Checking upon my phone,bags,diary,wallet etc.She started behaving weird, getting angry and never listened to whatever I used to say to her. I tried my best to keep calm so that my parents doesn't stress over it. Every time she used to come she did the same thing.She started insulting me,verbally abusing me,physically abusing me at times,putting my mother down,never letting me live peacefully in my own house.I had to cut ties with almost all of my friends just because of her behavior.I actually used to plead to everyone involved to arrange a meeting and make her understand. No one turned up initially until there was a big fight one day. In front of everyone it was open that she had this nature of nagging me and always thinking that I have too many things to hide from her. But, just because this matter should not escalate further,everyone just said to be calm and try to be happy and all. All this was repeatedly happening (From January 2016 onward) This is taken a toll on me mentally and I was not even able to move my career ahead since I was totally sinked into this. On one side, I had to think about my family, and on other side I have to fight a war with myself just to let each and every torture, insult and hatred let go.I decided to keep stop talking to her because it was getting really impossible to handle such weird and insane behavior. When she was in her internship, she used to threaten me with suicide attempt and all. This is so immature. Same was informed to her father over phone but to my surprise, he used to just laugh it off. (Note -- All these years, none of her parents really visited Mumbai) On Jan '18 she verbally abused, hit me and tore my clothes in front of my and her parents. This was the worst point in my life. She didn't stop, next day she starts messaging my colleagues about my whereabouts. PLEASE ADVISE AND HELP ME HOW TO PROCEED?!!
Asked 4 years ago in Civil Law