Most of the time she leaves my home and stays with her mother for long time of the order of 3 to 4 months also. She also harasses me and my old mother. There are frequent demands of money. Her brother and sister comes my home and threatens me about their right on my own properties. I am retired now. I will be in favor of divorce, but have fear about loosing of my hard earned property. Confused with what to do.
You can file a divorce on the grounds of cruelty, both mental and physical and also for the threats she poses through her relatives for your life and limbs.
There is no danger to your property, she cannot claim any right or share in your self acquired or inherits properties or in the properties to which you are the absolute owner as a right during your lifetime.
You may transfer the property to your son by executing a registered gift deed during your lifetime and handover possession by transferring all the revenue records and other records on his name immediately after executing the said registered gift deed, so that she cannot claim any rights in the property,
If her relatives trouble or torture demanding any share in the property, you may lodge a criminal complaint against them with the local police.
She can claim residential rights for the purpose residence in her matrimonial home.
She may file DV case also, but you can challenge the same properly.