It was a love marriage its been 1 year and my husband used to listen to his mother everytime who wanted us to get divorced , he never took a stand post marriage and used to hit me often and when i responded sh eused to call my family members and say that this girl is not worth of gtng married to anybody .girls should not resist and to save the marriage should stay quiet,husband will understand on his own, she used to be unhappy if my husband did anything fr me and when we used to have arguements she used to interfere and instigate my husband to give me divorce and leave me.they changed the house locks and did not let me in and threatened me for divorce . i also conceived and she tried to shame me by asking whose it was.my husband was fully in control and never thought as a husband.i was in depression and had to abort the child after informing my husband.my husband took me back home and my MIL left the house. we shifted in a 1BHk apt and since then she used to emotionally blackmail him that he left his single mother because of a girl. he used to get aggressive and hit me many a times and break the house articles in fit of anger and always threatened me for divorce and he would run away. recently he again assaulted with the curtain rod and dragged me by my hair 2 floors down the stairs i had to call the police ,when i defended and tried to stop him he too got scratches,police took us to the police station where my MLC was conducted and he ran away with his stuff back to his mother its been over a month and he has also done a mlc the next day and filed a complain that i tried to hit him,instead of feeling guilty he said i deserved it and is threatening for a divorce and is projecting everywhere that he is the victim.though he ran away before i reached home he is also blming me for his pan card and net dongle theft .we both were earning and i used to manage the finances and bought every article of the house .he is now claiming that its his appliances that ive stolen. im staying alone now and he has blocked me from everywhere and wants a divorce. police has filed an IPC323 as mlc was simple . i want to9 reconcile as divorce will scar my life but he is adamant and so are my family members as they have see nme suffer. i know he didi all this because of his mother who herself left the house but blamed me for all this. kindly suggest as he has filed a domestic violence case against me .he used to abuse my parents and when i used to reply he used to record things as well.
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu