mental harassment by in laws

Dear Sir/Madam I Got married in dec 2013, and got separated in april 2014, the reason for separation was mental harassment by husband and in laws including mother in law , father in law and brother in law. I m working in a school as lecture, as i m working on a non gazzette level and that fellow to whome i was married was a gazzette officer ,he use to call me kaam wali and alwayz try to inferiose me. it was instructed to me on very first day that i have to do all house holds including cleaning at 5:00 am in winters that to after having bath. my father in law and husband as for the money i earned and the past saving also. they demands for car and other things. They absuse my parents each and every day in front of everyone visit home. they dont allow me to meet my parents. they alleged me of bad character without any proof. due to all this i had a miscarriage. i was ruining in my job because of this stress. when i tried to talk to him , he said thousands of women are beaten up by their spouse, still they become mothers. eventually because of all this , i decided to commit sucide, but my parents they took me back home. after this they started visiting our relatives and society members defaming me in every sense. the even call my principal. after 5 months now that guy is asking for meetings, and this is through my colleques, i dont wann to go back. but our lawyer says let they file divoce first. becaus eif we will file first will not get any of our belongings from them, which includes jewellary and dowry. Sir/madam when they ask e to go from their home i was not able to took even one dress. moreover my jewellary was taken by them by second day of marriage . please help. we are living in very small area , and that person is very diplomatic...