about divorce

saqgtdear sir/madam mera naam vishal hai meri age 28.meri shadi 21 nov.2009 m hui thi aur arrenge marriage thi. lekin shadi k 2 mahine bad hi meri patni ne mere sath rehne se mana kar diya aur jab maine karan pucha tha usne bataya ki wo apni life banan chahti h aur mere sath uski ni jamegi kyuki mai ek lowet middle class family se belong karta hu. maine aur ghar k sabhi logo ne bahot samjhaya lekin wo ni mani aur apne pitaji ko bulakar apne mayeke chali gai.kai dino tak hamare bich koi bat chit nai hui par kuch dino bad maine usse bat karne koshish ki par usne koi jawab ni diya. aur ause hi karte karte wo kareeeb 20 mahino tak ni aai in dauran maine use kai laters likhe jinme ye likha hua tha ki agar mujse koi bhul ho gai ho to mai us baat k liye mahi chahta hu tu wapas aja ham apni girahsthi ek naye sire se suru karenge.aisi kai bate maine likh kar bheji par usne mere kisi bhi khat kajawab ni diya .majbooran muje advocate k jariye bhi letter bheje phir bhi usne koi jawab ni diya.phir ye bat ko maine ane kai ritedaro k samne rakha to unohne kaha ki ham sabhi10 se 15 log mere sasural jakar is samsya ka hal nikalenge. fir ek din aisa hi hua 10 se 15 log gaye aur kafi bate hui aur fir meri wife ane k liye raji hui par usne ane k liye kai tarah ki sharte rakhi jaise ki use har 15 se 20 din me ek bae usk mayeke le jaya jaye aur waha .mobile use karne k liye diya jaye agar ni diya to wo mere sath ni rahegi.uski sari shatre mankar hum ne ek tarikh fix ki aur us fix ki gai tarikh par mai use jakar le aya(30/03/2012).itne lambe samya k bad ane par bhi use kuch fark ni pada uska behavior bdalta hi ja raha tha .lekin jaise taise din gujar rahe the .par jaha 1 mahina hota wo koi na koi bahane mere ghar k kisi bhi member se jhagad kar mayeke chali jati aur fir wahi kehti muje ni ana h muje ni jamta h.magar mai kisi b tarah use samjha kar wapas le ata .aie karte karte kuch din bite aur fir ham dono ko ek nanhi si bachhi hui (27/02/2013)bahot hi sunder aur khubsurat si bachhi.hum sab bahotkhush hue laga ki ab sab kuch sambhak jayeg apr aisa nahi hua jab tak bachhi ek mahine ki hui usne fir koi bahan dhunda aur meri ma aur behen k sath jhagad bathi aur har bar ki tarah apne pitaji ko bulakr chali gai .is tarike ki harkat usne kai bar ki mane uske pitaji se bhi bat ki par unohne kaha mai kuch nahi janta meri beti jaha khush rahegi mai use wahi rakhunga jo karna h kar lo.uske pita ji ne kai bar dahejpratha m fasane ki dhamki bhi di thi. par ham kuch kar bi nahi sakthe aur hamesha ki taraf use mana kar apne ghar lana padata .ab to bachhi bhi h uske bare m bhi sochna tha.lekin uska ye sil sila nahi thama akhir kar usne abki bar clearly bol diya ki wo mere sath ni rehna chati hai.mere pitaji ne kafi samjhaya par wo ni mani ,mere pitaji ne uske pitaji ko bhi bulaya taki wo kuch samjha sake leki samjhana to door ulta uski taraf se bat kar ne lage aur use kaha tu nahi rehna chahti h to chal ya se jo hoga mai to lunga aur hamare sath ulti bate ki galii galoch ki,marne marne ki dhmki dete hue meri wifeaur meri bachhi ko bhi apne sath lekar chala gaya (22/07/2014) .mane unlogo k khilaf police m nc bhi karwadi kyuki mai bahot dar gaya tha. ab mai kya karu muje samaj me nai a raha h.kya hamare bich divorce ho sakta h .bina kisi alumany k.kripya karke kuch sujhav dojiye.