Husband wants a divorce and I want to atleast give it a fair try
Dear alll ,
This is a super complex case .
We met in 2014 via shaadi.com
After a year of knowing and understanding each other (no physical activity)
We clicked very well
2015 we got married with blessings of the family.
As I was a virgin ,we really in our honeymoon that I am very scared of sex .
I was diagnosed with vaginusmus which is nuthg but failure to consummate .
We tried. Lot but unable to properly have sex.
Both were very sad but we loved each other so much and attached to each other .
He always said kuch na kuch ho jayega .
We lived a fun and opulent life .
8th year of marriage we started Ivf which he wanted me to do to have children.
Which he supported completely.
Midway he got second thoughts n he started getting nervous that now if children come he will be stuck with me .so he left home July 2023
I conceived twins but he made me abort them saying we should try to fix our marriage and I agreed and I also said ok for abortion.
After the abortion also he dint come back to live with me saying he is confused and need to think .
I gave him his space .meanwhile we spoke a lot and after few months he said let’s try .but he never came home .
During that time I did my treatment of vaginusmus and I am completely fit now .
He was getting close mentally slowly but now his family has started complicating this situation more .
Saying giving this chance is a Bad idea .
Now it’s April 2024,and since feb even I suggested let’s call this off if you are not interested and he was like let’s try .
Now he says without any trying or attempt let’s call this off it’s too complex for us to get out of .
What do I do ? I love him a lot and I know he does too .
He is just a little weak at heart