No road to house

Sir, I live in a small village called Salempur, district of Bihar. Sir my home is about 100 meters away from main road. Between my house and main road there is a plot of 1-2kattah whose owners are my Patidaar(so called distant family member). After my house there is also a 2 kattah plot which belongs to me.(main road)-(someone else's home)-(my home)-(my plot). Problem is that we want to make a 10 ft wide road from main road to my house. I am ready to give land for road but my patidaar want the land that attaches to the main road. We are requesting him for many years but in vain. I am ready to pay even the cost of his taken land. There isn't any way to use a two wheeler let alone the four wheeler.My question is- (1). Can we legally demand my patidaar a 10 ft road where at least an ambulance can reach my home (2).- If yes refer me to that articles of IPC . (3).- Can i stop him leaglly if he starts construction to bllock the said path. (4).- Can i alone demand a 10 ft road from my house to main road.