Wife not returning back and not agreeing on divorce

Separated wife not giving divorce I got married in 2018 and since then i have a disturbed married life.in whole of these five years me and wife has lived together only for fews months and that too in installments because she always left my house at small issues. After every 4-5 months she would go to her father place and stay there for 1 year. She has repeatedly doing this activity since 5 years. First Absent period is july 2019 till December 2019 Second absent period March 2020 till november 2020. Third absent period February 2021 till March 2021. Fourth absent period sept 2022 till date (dec2023). We don't have any children. Presently she clearly stated that she won't be returning back to me and not willing to give divorce and will not agree on mutual separation. I haven't done any domestic violence. She is working in govt psu and always giving priority to work and colleagues and their well being. She never took responsibility as a wife. I do not have any job. Kindly advice.