Pursis filed for DV but no further action

Hello all, I filed divorce under cruelty against my wife and after lot of torcher for restitution. my wife filed DV, 498A and restitution case in her native place 4 months after my divorce case. Its been 2 yrs now. in the mean time, for interim maintenance my wife filed false affidavit in the DV case as well as in highcourt (Misc application to transfer the divorce case to her native place). She falsely shown that she is not working any where and not earning. However, we found and presented that she is working in Big company and getting 5 digit salary. upon hearing the same, she immediately withdrawn the case from high court and diverted the DV case to mediation. in mediation settlement done that I need to give X amount to her. half of x amount at the time of filing mutual divorce case and half the amount after final judgement of mutual divorce. Before that, both the parties need to withdraw the cases they filed. the pursis submitted in a court. Now, my wife not ready to neither withdrawing the cases nor co-operating in 498 case. they are insisting and putting in front of court that I must withdraw the divorce case first. It will be risk for me if i withdraw first as she still having 3 cases pending. now she is putting some adultery things against me in the say of my divorce case. Respected sir, please guide how can I get rid of this. As some time I feel its now over and some time its just start. Thank you