Divorce and child custody

Mine is arranged marriage I got married on July 26 2015 before marriage my inlaws said no demand but after marriage continuous harassment for dowry and also my inlaws demanded property of mine to gift deed on my husbands name if not done my husband will divorce me my inlaws tortured me in low lying pregnancy as I was advised by doctors for bed rest my inlaws made me work beyond my capacity and decided to admit me in hospital for abortion which I opposed saying I am suffering from UTI infection and this does not need admission in hospital said by other doctors my inlaws send me to my parents home and later on discussed with my parents as baby is low lying miscarriage will happen so better to abort it if not done I and my child will die I opposed to that my husband started scolding and abusing me over phone and want me to travel long distance which is not safe for me n my child I refused to do that after delivery my husband came to hospital next day and blocked my contact and left to Mumbai and to qatar on job my inlaws said me not to and to home we will conduct meeting until that u should not and after 5 months of delivery by speed post my husband send divorce notice through lawyer which was issued by qazzath office and left to qatar which I rejected in jan 2017 after that I filed 498a ipc and 3 4 do act cases on them my husband is absconding till now inlaws are attending court this year in march 2022 my husband lawyer said to take meher and iddaat amt which I have taken recently 51000 and also divorce certificate issued by qazzath office in 2016 only I have taken in 2022 now as my lawyer said if I accept also divorce done if I do not accept also divorce done so I accepted my question is as both cases are running will I lose my cases as I accepted divorce and meher and iddaat amt 10000 from opposite lawyer one more question my husband has remarried in 2018 in Turkey and left indian citizenship he wont and back even I wait for 20 years and he has kids also he left me and my daughter of 6 years forever his lawyer said. No maintenance for me n my daughter no whereabouts of him how to make him receive notices of maintenance my inlaws are very old age father in law of 71 years and mother inlaw of 66 years they will die as soon the opposite lawyer saying to compromise as my husband would never return to india compromise with inlaws they will give u 3 lakhs and to withdraw my cases to do Mou without my ex husband how is my divorce done which I accepted maintenance and custody how is possible.