I married a guy without my parents knowing and now he has left me. Neither is he giving divorce

Hi, we met in college and then we respectively got jobs. After getting a job he started asking me for money he kept asking me for money and said he loved me and wants to marry me. I was in different location and he was in his state home. he then said that we are drifting apart and then i should come to his home town. I made a foolish mistake of believing that he loved me and took trasfer. After a week his whole family cornered me and said that we should get married and they will talk to my parents later and make them agree. In this facade his parents were also included. I agreed. We were different cast and state. After marriage for 3-4 months all good. But then he slowly stopped talking to me. Keep in mind that i had also started to stop giving him money too. Then in feb i said to him loud and clear if he is not going to give me time and take responsibility and properly ask my parents i will not be with him anymore. After a week he called and said that this is how u can file for divorce and we can go for mutual one. But now that i talk to lawyer regarding the process they say he has to come too and when we call him he doesnt come. I am stuck. I made the biggest mistake of my life. I cant tell my parents about this and he is not coming for the process either. What should i do. Please tell me. Plz help me out.