498A , Dowry and Section 9 RCR , Mutual Divorce

My Wife has filed multiple forged cases on me three year back in Jabalpur City M.P and case are namely 1 Protection of Domestic Violence 2005 Act Section 12 * Status Matter Relate to hearing of Interim application 2 Indian Penal Code 1860 Under Section 498A and 34 3 Dowry Prohibition Act 1961 Section 3,4 * Recording of recording criminal evidence. These cases are just running, nothing else. No Evidence are recorded yet and all the above case are under same court and judge. I have later on filled Section 9 RCR to bring her back in Betul District Court MP . She got the Stay from Jabalpur High Court on the first hearing, and later we we found and revoked the stay after one year. As of today we are mutually willing to withdraw case and go for mutual divorce. My Question are What are the procedure to withdraw cases and all the cases are filed by them.except RCR * Do we have to appear when the cases are withdrawn, as whole family member name are included. * Is the case can be withdrawn from district court or session court, or Do we need to visit high courts for any appeal 
 RCR Section 9 * Can this case separately be closed irrespective of opponents cases (I, Wife) Mutual Divorce * What is the process to file mutual divorce and what would the time taken seeing the current situation. * Can we be filed without withdrawals any of the above cases or withdrawal in progress.