Bias court room litagation

Motion filed to have divorce decree enforced. Children's college tuition paid by ex as per FJOD. Ex./Lawyer both served. 2 delays from ex/lawyer. First lawyer states they weren't allowed enough time to respond. Second, he was allegedly hospitalized showing on a doctor's note from medical pad only. There was a date set for court and reset a few later. Attorney not responding to requests for availability. This started in June 2020. In August day of hearing attorney finally responded 20 minutes prior to hearing. She didn't have zoom info. Court sends to her, she responds, thank. Time for hearing and she's a no show. She doesn't call the court and doesn't respond to calls made to her. I wanted 30 mins. Judge states that she doesn't know what happened to atty. I asked the judge when it would be rescheduled. The judge said that it would be between the atty and I. At this point I feel as though there will be no jussftice for me. Sept, Oct. Dec court tries to resch. I stopped responding. I had submitted my response to the counter claim etc. Judge rules in ex favor. Lists all the times that I didn't respond, but fails to list when I showed up for court. I had complied with the courts by submitting college grades. I had 5 motions proving ex never complied. I submitted proof ex lied about income. Judge sided with ex.( S/N In a 2011 court hearing same judge told me that I wouldn't get my monies allotted to me from FJOD unless my ex hit the lottery. )12/17/2020 Final motion signed by Judge. What can be done? I reside in NJ.