Is there any possibility to get an exemption for not attending court for every hearing

Hi, i am software employee an A1 accused in 498A section filed by my wife in 2015 when i was in working in India currently working in Europe at Client side. Currently My case is in Summons to Witness stage where my judge is posting dates for every 15 days and not accepting my absent petition from my lawyer as i attend every 3rd hearing by travelling all the way to india on my own expenses which is becoming very hard now because of my job and i am the only one bread earner for my family included both the senior parents. My judge is becoming serious and scaring me saying he will issue a warrant if i am not present for each hearing. No one from the witness is coming to the court but the judge is only angry on me. if i loose the job my family will be on roads. I have not done any mistake, my wife with the influence of her parents filed a case against me which will never be proved. my divorce case is also in evidence status. My wife currently is working and living in USA leaving my 6yr old son in india with her parents. is there any way where i can file a petition saying i would attend the hearing if its necessary only like for every 3 months or more than that. if so what should i need to do for that. please suggest me in this issue by replying to [deleted]