File fr divorce

Its been one year 9 month for my marriage . My husband has a mjor ego problem. He just gives me bad words even in front of his bbrother and sister . On bed after physical relation in night he just asked me " How much s the cost fr today? " . Just because i never drink tea and he was forcing me to have the same he left me on old expressway with his bike and switched off his phone . On that his mom first scolded him and later said me there was no need to call me on succh small things . He used to abuse my parents as well , when I said his mom she used to say its just a small thing. He always used to blame me even if his appraisal in his office was low . I was left alone no one used to behave with me like a family even my health issues were neglected . He used to say if u give birth to girl child I will kill her she may become like u. I will adopt a child so if he behaves in appropriately I can leave him n remove from house. This each and every scenario made me alone and I used to talk with my some male friends which later led to sexting also. Now he has checked my phone and he has took videos of those cchats and now I am concerened what if he disclose those , he always says about my character . even I haven't said my mom dad about those chats much briefly . I said it was quite normal . Please suggest how I should mention my this point without harming my character . Also is it a major issue ?